
These Swiss families welcomed Carolyn and the boys into their world, socializing after school at the park across the street, breaking out cheese, bread, chocolate - adding wine on Fridays.
In a way, Switzerland gave us an urban version of Mayberry RFD, an experience common among expats in Europe. The bucolic nature of many European cities undoubtedly owed to zoning codes, it seems that urban density - apartment living, public transport, routinized life - enables a schedule full of community possibilities.

There is something about American life that propels everything outward - driven by endless choice; struggling to keep things intact, while breaking our lives apart.

Granted, the fact we've been able to live here - twice now - is linked to that spinning, dizzying force that flung us to Switzerland in the first place.

Looking back our boys had excellent teachers; Mr. Decoudre inspired Jack, who told us some point this year, "I want to be a teacher," while Mme Reichen gave 150% daily.
The formal nature of social norms seemed to afford a more casual approach in other areas, say, in spoken address; the children called teachers by their first names. Not a slippery slope, the practice seemed to add a convention - warmth, familiar - to existing codes of authority. Back home, we worked doubly hard to instill respect, and titles held considerable symbolic value. Here, redundant.
