Monday, May 24, 2010

Kodomo no Hi

These are the beautiful Girls Day dolls terraced on red where the Koi carp traditionally fly over households - one for each son - on Boys Day which, by a victim of PC,
has been generically reduced to Kodomo no Hi ("Children's Day"), as the headline reads,



which is from the Rafu Shimpo, LA's 107 year-old Japanese newspaper. My family combed to find out about the latest ninja/samurai movies, inevitably ending with the obituary column, as the community dispersed beyond the key suburbs of Gardena and Torrance.

We headed to Little Tokyo ("Japanese Town") with Chris & Hilary's family for an afternoon of martial arts demos, crafts, & food vendors -all for Kodomo no Hi. The dance was a teaser for the annual Nisei (second generation JA) festival held in August. The volunteers & their good-natured energy came more from recent immigrants; seemed odd at first, but pretty normal, since they made the break with the home country most recently.

The JA community is ethnically diverse - tend to marry outside their race compared to other Asian groups - but economically similar, as subsequent waves of Japanese immigrants come as already affluent, thus remain outside the old story of rising up the social ladder as farmers or merchants, who worked their way up & out of Japanese Town. JTown remained an important touchstone for the latter group, who would return there on the weekends, spending all day walking its blocks, buying groceries, eating at its many restaurants, catching a movie.

There are a number of shops still around from the old days. Rafu Bussan, perhaps the largest gift shop, with an impressive collection of dolls. There used to be a movie theater next door.
Then there is still Bunkado
with a mix of genuine ceramics, tea ceremony utencils, and souvenirs. The upstairs had the biggest record/CD collections, where my folks would buy albums by Misora Hibari, the famed Japanese enka singer:



Our household was filled with Bing Crosby, Judy Garland, and Hibari, whose vocal control and lyrics resonate with American country, except with a big band jazz influence, to boot. I was astonished to discover fellow grad students writing dissertation chapters on the late great artist now; my childhood memory attaining academic respectability.

Back to Children's Day. This festival dancer and loud yelling minstrels with taiko drum reminded me how bizarrely sophisticated and modern, as well as tribally primitive Japanese culture can be; Paris and Africa in one.

Gideon was so cute.
I always vow to take family trips to Japanese Town, but they rarely happen and Michael & Jack feel closer to the culinary rituals of fondue and raclette than they do sushi, so I guess I am living up to my cultural stereotype.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Suzuki Recital

Kelsey & Sheryl Lloyd, Jack & Michael's Suzuki instructors
The annual recital was lovely, watching the boys deliver their hard-practiced pieces. Mrs Lloyd is somewhat old school, placing great focus on formal perfection with an eye towards performance. It can be grueling, as Carolyn becomes the taskmaster, all the while hoping self-motivation will kick in. The danger of excellence is that it can produce a few failures, as well, sometimes killing the love for music.

Michael really loves performance - a ham at heart.

Jack nailed it at the rehearsal, but his eyes tended to stray into the audience.

Still, I'm amazed he actually sounds OK.


Michael's school, Beacon Hill Classical Academy, is thinking of offering piano lessons as a part of the curriculum next year. Classical Christian meets Chinese pragmatism, believing in the value of persistence, deferred pleasure, & the high correlation between musical training and mathematics (the annual meeting of the American Mathematical Society features numerous free concerts, since many AMS members are amateur musicians). After a year of practices, the annual recital is all about the payoff - the pleasure - for parents & child.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Graduation!

It was graduation at Pepperdine, one of the remaining throwbacks to medieval Europe visible in America via institutions like the university. Actually, not much about college these days reflects medieval learning, but rituals like cap & gown, regalia, the march (my former employer - UPS - featured scepters with an incantation!) have universalized while trivializing medievalism in contemporary society, almost entirely bereft of ritual otherwise; the content & context missing, formal meaning alone survives.
Tom Reilly & Stuart Davenport before the faculty procession.

Personally for us, this meant the passing on of our Lausanne students we befriended three years ago; sophomores we inherited from parents have now entered another level of independence.
Liz
Tyler found me afterwards, before heading back to Maryland.
Elle's family with Erika
"Go Waves" (Pepperdine's sports motto)
The next day, we held a graduation party for Elle, Erika, Jeff, & JoAnne and their families. Jenny made an absolutely delicious double-layered, cake,
then was enlisted in wonton frying duty.
It was a nice mix of church folks, whom Elle - off to Boston L'Abri - has gotten to know - entire strangers to each other, really - but the mix worked beautifully.
Jordan and Chris of GRC (Grace Reformed Church)
David wore orange in honor of Pepperdine (a not-so-closet Syracuse fan)
Dan catered the event: smoked brisket, chicken, orzo salad, etc.
JoAnne - frequent babysitter - occupied young ones with an improvised scavenger hunt
before heading home to Coeur d'Alene, ID.
The Baldwins we'd met in Lausanne, except the grandfather.
Carolyn and James
The Freemans from Vermont

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We look forward to seeing where these young folks will be a couple years from now, but am amazed at how much impact we've all had on each other; maybe the impersonal institutional setting (Pepperdine) heightened by the low social capital of Los Angeles intensified things.
My beautiful collage was a surprise parting gift for getting tenure, given immediately following graduation. ADIEU derives from "I commit you to God," relativizing farewell to a temporary state. How else do we make sense of these bonds and photographs, already marked by time?

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Mother's Day

From StoryCorps:

"In early 2006, 12-year-old Joshua Littman, who has Asperger’s syndrome, interviewed his mother, Sarah, at StoryCorps. Their one-of-a-kind conversation covered everything from cockroaches to Sarah’s feelings about Joshua as a son."


Q&A from StoryCorps on Vimeo.