Sunday, March 31, 2013

Edith Rachel Mei Fuh Seville Schaeffer, 1914 - 2013



 Edith Schaeffer, born 1914in China, died in Switzerland yesterday at 98. She and her husband, Francis, founded L’Abri Fellowship in Switzerlandin 1955, a study center and community that grew out of their home. L’Abri,French for “shelter,” together with the Schaeffers’ 40+ books had a profoundimpact on evangelical Christianity, impacting a wide range of individuals:pastors, such as James Boice at 10th Presbyterian and George Grantof King’s Meadow Study Center, RC Sproul of Ligonier Valley Study Center, OsGuinness of Trinity and Veritas Forums, professors, such as Nancy Pearcey atHouston Baptist, Jamie Smith at Calvin, David Wells at Gordon, John Frame atReformed Theological Seminary; among political activists who stirred theProtestant conscience on human life issues, and, in the art world, Lee Hendrix,Senior Curator of Drawings at the Getty Center, among many others.                     

I had the privilege ofworking and living with the Schaeffers and their family for several years,beginning when I was 19. Carolyn traveled with Edith for a month in the mid-90s in China, when revisiting her missionary home.

Edith Rachel, by her Chinesename, Mei Fuh(美喜, meaning “Beautiful Happiness”) was the youngest ofthree daughters born in China to missionaries, George and Jessie Seville. Thischildhood heritage remained a key part of her identity, as it had also been forBilly Graham’s late wife, Ruth.

In fact, the model of prayer support for L’Abri – the“praying family,” which allowed the work to break from institutional centers ofcontrol and appeal directly to God for support - was adopted by Edith Schaefferfrom the China Inland Mission.  Edith ledthe Monday morning prayer meetings, and was the communication hub, writing the “FamilyLetter” newsletters and the “prayer letter,” given on request to only thepraying family.

A scrupulous Bible reader, I watched her early in themorning before breakfast, pouring over scripture, writing meticulous notes inthe top, bottom, & side margins.  Shewould also write out her prayers.

Hospitality
Edith opened her home and had a flair and commitmentfor beauty, making mealtimes memorable, serving with flowers, candlelight,working resourcefully with limited funds. It was the unrelenting attention todetail, the ability to go the entire journey, which often turned a simpleconversation into something noteworthy, visually and spiritually; things werebrought to an exceptional focus, all the while the individual felt profoundly caredfor.
 
She struggled with perfectionism. She was a taskmasterin preparing Sunday evening high tea sandwiches, whose strategy was to have themeal completely done, clearing the evening for nonstop reading aloud. The breadwas to be buttered "thinly and to the edges” or they were sent back; sometimes we joked, "Your epitaph should read: ‘Thinly And To the Edges.” A forerunner ofnutritionists and regional chefs today, Edith took pride in her extensivevegetable garden, opening with joy the annual shipment from Philadelphia’sBurpee Seed Company, first rendering the garden on a drawing board, enjoyingthe visual layout. Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter menus were similarly sketchedout, as well.

She saw the world as an artist, composed landscapes,appreciated textures, found much beauty in nature: a twisted branch, the colorof moss.  Like a child collecting shellson the seashore, she made discoveries and, when turning this gaze upon human beings,found beauty there, as well.  Edith notonly believed in the infinite worth of people made in God’s image, but acted asthough it were really true; although this truth also came with a price - everywedding gift long ago broken in service of hospitality.
 
She often said that she prayed her children would besolid mahogany or oak, not veneer, and this intense, personable trait – theability to value you even more than you valued yourself – was completelydisarming.  She could go around a dinnertable of 36 during Sunday lunch, speak directly to each person duringintroductions with complete frankness; an almost unlimited reserve for conversationand knowing someone, often to the detriment of her own health.  She wasn’t good with limits. 

I sometimes thought: what this woman might have donewith a cell-phone!
 
Arts
Well-educated in her family background, Edith had arich taste for classical music, children’s literature, sculpture and painting,but brought this into the home and into daily conversation; the arts hadimmediate and direct importance for her. Both she and her husband liked theirmusic loud, drowning out the considerable noise in their house full of guests, withBach, Mozart, choral music, and Scott Joplin.
 
A keen instinct for fashion, early on, she designedand made many of her own clothes, overcoming financial limits with an “I can dothat” audaciousness. In fact, an expert seamstress, she put her husband through seminary, tailoring men's suits and ballroom gowns for Philadelphia socialites, crafted belts from leather hides, which were picked-up by a New York designer who encouraged her to move to the city; but that wouldn't happen.

Although down-to-earth, her sophisticated design sense and churning, creative energy at times made me feel I was in the presence of a godfearingGucci or Christian Chanel.  A genuinely literateand culturally up-to-date individual, who also scrubbed floors and peeledpotatoes; it was an intriguing combination of worlds and an observer might feeloverpowered by it all.
 
She invested heavily in her children’s education,reading aloud missionary biographies – Hudson Taylor, Amy Carmichael - onSunday afternoons. The Schaeffers absolutely loved Italy – the art, the direct,non-fussy nature of its cuisine, level of craftsmanship, sense of style ineveryday life as a kind of antidote to an overly mental, cerebral rigidnessoften ascribed to northern Protestantism, soaking up the sun, colors, and lustfor life readily experienced in the Mediterranean south.  Which is why they also grieved the lack of genuinebelief they also found there.
 
With origins in China and a remarkable life abroad,authoring 20 books, Edith Schaeffer was still a person of the church and atheart, a pastor’s wife, 30 years bereft of her husband. Francis often said hisfavorite hymn was “Jesus Loves Me,” with its clear reasoning, “for the Bibletells me so.”  Edith had a substantialhymnody - British and American – and could sing through an entire hymnal – but oneof her favorites, “I Know Whom I Have Believed” comes to mind:

I know not why God's wondrous grace
to me he hath made known,   
nor why, unworthy, Christ in love          
redeemed me for his own. 

But I know whom I have believed,        
and am persuaded that he is able       
to keep that which I've committed         
unto him against that day.

In the end, her “I can do that” was eclipsed by anunshakeable conviction that only “he is able.” And given her sense of dramatictiming, it also seems appropriate Edith Schaeffer died at the end of Passionweek to enter the presence of her Lord, celebrating Easter hours later; nolonger in need of being persuaded.
 

4 comments:

Chrissy Harris said...

Beautiful -a very complete tribute to a wonderful woman.I only know her through reading ,but that has been a huge encouragement to me in my life raising a family and teaching them.
She lived through very interesting times and got the very best out of them when elsewhere there was a lot of cynicism replacing belief in God's goodness.
I am grateful for her positivity !

Annie said...

Thank you for this... I am only just discovering her writings... she was a remarkable woman.

Unknown said...

I have just come here by accident as was trying to find out how the original L'abri Workers were now and where, if still at L'abri and came across your site with Edith Schaefer. I used to receive her Family Letters over 35 years ago, have her books. She was the same age as my mother so could relate in some ways. Was so interesting, moving to see her so unexpectedly at this stage in her life there with you. I often wondered over the years where she was. May I ask, what is your connection to Edith Schaeffer as it looked here, on these photo's, to me, that she may have been living with you and your family, not just visiting. It also appears that there is something wrong with either her feet or legs, or perhaps feet and legs. What happened? I had heard somewhere many years ago talk that she had signs of Dementia, however these photo's show her eyes steady, as beautiful as ever. I hope you see this comment and can respond to my questions. Edith Schaeffer has been my own personal mentor throughout my own growing family life. Yes, have stayed at the Dutch l'agri myself, albeit it only for a weekend whilst our younger daughter stayed in the English L'abri as a worker for six weeks, the Australian L'abri not far from us, so have visited several times years ago for Lectures.
Thank you for making your precious photos of Edith available here.

Mike said...

I will comment here to Unknown because I don't see a way of responding directly to your comment.Glad you were able to find a blog I no longer maintain as our family is older now. I lived next door to Edith at Chesieres village, as I was studying then working with her youngest daughter, Debby Middelmann, for 5 years. I began working with Francis and Edith as an aid of sorts in the kitchen, correspondence, etc for the latter period of my time in Switzerland, when I helped move with them to Minnesota when FAS' cancer came back in '84. After his death, I stayed in the state and went back to college, while helping out Edith who had moved the entire chalet of belongings to Rochester, MN, where both are buried.

Years later, Edith moved back to Switzerland as she needed to be nearer family and where I was able to visit often as I was working in Switzerland as a professor, but also now married with two boys. This was 2006-2012, and the pictures are from this period. Many of the furnishings and art returned to Switzerland as she rented a floor of a neighboring chalet to Debby and Udo (who traveled a few times to AU as a L'Abri speaker, btw).

Edith suffered some small strokes so was not as able to consistently engage in conversation, but the core of her personality came through and could be triggered by music, memories, etc. She was often listening very carefully even though she wasn't always speaking up.

I had just gone to Switzerland for her funeral when I posted of her life.